Woman delays retirement to care for 102-year-old mother
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Barbara Marcanti of the United States postponed her retirement to provide full-time care for her 102-year-old mother, after learning of her mother’s declining health while returning from a trip to Tahiti.
Marcanti, a former nurse and medical professional, used her medical background and power of attorney to assess her mother’s needs when she was hospitalized at age 100.
After considering options like nursing homes and in-home care, which would have cost around $20,000 per month, the family decided Marcanti’s mother would move in with her. Marcanti manages her mother’s finances and healthcare, including advocating for her with doctors who initially hesitated to treat a patient of her age. She also balances providing care with maintaining her mother’s independence and pursuing her own interests.
Despite the challenges, Marcanti prioritizes her mother’s happiness and well-being, taking her on cruises and allowing her to maintain some routines like making her own breakfast. The situation has altered Marcanti’s life significantly, creating feelings of responsibility similar to those she experienced as a new parent and sometimes leading to social isolation.
Despite these difficulties, Marcanti feels confident she is providing the best possible care for her mother and has no regrets about her decision, even as it impacts her own plans for retirement and personal fulfillment.
