A woman moved her family from Singapore to Iowa City to care for her father

Vivian Pei moved her family from Singapore back to the United States to provide care for her elderly father.

After spending more than 30 years living and working abroad in cities like Tokyo, Paris, and London, Pei decided to relocate to Iowa City after a visit revealed her 85-year-old father needed significant help. Her father, who had previously worked at a restaurant in Wisconsin, was struggling to maintain his home and manage his health.

Pei moved to Iowa City with her two teenage children to establish a support network with extended family. The move required her to navigate the American healthcare system, manage her father's medical records, and handle his financial paperwork. She also managed his daily needs, including medication and personal hygiene, as he began to show signs of dementia. The transition caused a major culture shock for Pei, who lost her established social life and professional identity in Singapore.

To regain a sense of independence, she started a food business with her cousin to sell Asian-inspired snacks at farmers markets. Her father passed away last year, and Pei expressed gratitude that she was able to provide him with care and allow him to spend time with his grandchildren during his final years.